One of the important aspects of having a healthy relationship is being able to have your relationship needs met. This is one of the ways to keep your relationship happy and it goes for you and your partner. You should not always be asking for you to be considered, you should be taking care of your partner too. If you want to do what you can to prevent a break up then you should be doing this.
If the both of you are able to communicate together, you would have had the chance to discuss what each expect from the other to help make them happy. It can be as simple as helping with the chores around the house. If you don’t talk about it how could you know what the other wants, you most likely can’t read minds.
You may find how your partners needs are so different from your own and you would have never know if the two of did not talk about it. Your partner may find that you need to be shown how much they love you by saying it every so often or showing it by doing little deeds.
If your partner would like help doing chores and never had a discussion about it, you may get some hints from them by how they act. If they are washing dishes and seem to be making a lot of noise by banging things around, they may be telling you they would like some help. They are angry but can’t for some reason come out and ask you.
You may come help just to quite them down but not because they want to help. Simply ask them and explain it would mean a lot if they would join you. If a couple could do these things for each other then a relationship could be so much more healthy and the chance of breaking up would be reduced.